て初めて

てはじめて

For the first time, Not until, Only after, Only when

先生せんせいになって初はじめて、先生せんせいの大変たいへんさが分わかった。

It was only upon becoming a teacher, that I understood how hard it is to be one.

Explanation

「Vて初めて」 means 'only after doing... for the first time'. Until then you did not notice, understand or manage something; only after going through the first event do you finally realise it or become able to. The second half usually has verbs of understanding, noticing or ability: 「分かる」, 「気づく」, 「知る」, 「できるようになった」. It is often used for life lessons: 「病気になって初めて、健康のありがたさが分かった」 (Only after falling ill did I understand how precious health is).

Mixed up with

「～てから」 simply gives the order of events: 「ご飯を食べてから出かける」 (go out after eating). 「～て初めて」 has the feeling 'I had never realised this before'.

The second half is normally a change in understanding or state, not a plain daily plan. You cannot say 「×薬を飲んで初めて病院に行った」.

Examples

やってみて初はじめて、難むずかしさを痛感つうかんしました。
Only after I tried it, did I fully realize the degree of difficulty.
カレンダーを見みて初はじめて今日きょうが休日きゅうじつだってことを知しった。
Only after checking the calendar did I notice that it is a holiday today.
失うしなって初はじめて、その価値かちが分わかりました。
Only after I lost it, did I understand its value.
好すきなバンドのコンサートに行いって初はじめて、歌手かしゅの人ひとが男おとこの人ひとだと気きづいた。
It wasn't until I went to a concert of my favorite band that I realized the singer was a man.
駅えきにある時刻表じこくひょうを見みて初はじめて、土日どにちには電車でんしゃが来こないことを知しった。
I didn't know that trains don't come during the weekends, until I saw the train schedule.
話はなしを聞きいてみて初はじめて、君きみの苦労くろうを知しった。
Only after I heard your story, did I understand what you had been through.
テレビを見みて初はじめて、地震じしんがあったことを知しった。
It wasn't until I saw the TV that I learned there had been an earthquake.
指摘してきされて初はじめて、寝癖ねぐせがついていることに気きづいた。
Only after it was pointed out, did I notice that I had bed hair.
時計とけいを見みて初はじめて、寝坊ねぼうしたことに気きづいた。
Only after I saw the clock, did I notice that I had overslept.
親おやになって初はじめて、親おやの大変たいへんさが分わかりました。
It wasn't until I became a parent, that I understood the hardships of parenthood.
日本語にほんごを勉強べんきょうして初はじめて、他ほかの国くにの言語げんごで話はなす面白おもしろさを知しった。
I didn't know how fun it was to speak in other languages until I started studying Japanese.
実物じつぶつを見みて初はじめて、その素晴すばらしさを実感じっかんできました。
Only after I had seen the real thing, did I actually realize how amazing it was.
犬いぬを飼かって初はじめて、ペットを飼かうには責任せきにんが伴ともなうことを知しった。
It wasn't until I got a dog that I understood the responsibility required to keep a pet.
京都きょうとを訪おとずれて初はじめて、京都きょうとが歴史れきしの古ふるい町まちだと分わかった。
Only after visiting Kyoto did I understand that it is a city with a long history.
日本にほんに来きて初はじめて、日本にほん文化ぶんかに興味きょうみを持もった。
I didn't have any interest in Japanese culture until I came to Japan.

Explanation

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The second half is normally a change in understanding or state, not a plain daily plan. You cannot say 「×薬を飲んで初めて病院に行った」.

Examples

やってみて初はじめて、難むずかしさを痛感つうかんしました。
Only after I tried it, did I fully realize the degree of difficulty.
カレンダーを見みて初はじめて今日きょうが休日きゅうじつだってことを知しった。
Only after checking the calendar did I notice that it is a holiday today.
失うしなって初はじめて、その価値かちが分わかりました。
Only after I lost it, did I understand its value.
好すきなバンドのコンサートに行いって初はじめて、歌手かしゅの人ひとが男おとこの人ひとだと気きづいた。
It wasn't until I went to a concert of my favorite band that I realized the singer was a man.
駅えきにある時刻表じこくひょうを見みて初はじめて、土日どにちには電車でんしゃが来こないことを知しった。
I didn't know that trains don't come during the weekends, until I saw the train schedule.
話はなしを聞きいてみて初はじめて、君きみの苦労くろうを知しった。
Only after I heard your story, did I understand what you had been through.
テレビを見みて初はじめて、地震じしんがあったことを知しった。
It wasn't until I saw the TV that I learned there had been an earthquake.
指摘してきされて初はじめて、寝癖ねぐせがついていることに気きづいた。
Only after it was pointed out, did I notice that I had bed hair.
時計とけいを見みて初はじめて、寝坊ねぼうしたことに気きづいた。
Only after I saw the clock, did I notice that I had overslept.
親おやになって初はじめて、親おやの大変たいへんさが分わかりました。
It wasn't until I became a parent, that I understood the hardships of parenthood.
日本語にほんごを勉強べんきょうして初はじめて、他ほかの国くにの言語げんごで話はなす面白おもしろさを知しった。
I didn't know how fun it was to speak in other languages until I started studying Japanese.
実物じつぶつを見みて初はじめて、その素晴すばらしさを実感じっかんできました。
Only after I had seen the real thing, did I actually realize how amazing it was.
犬いぬを飼かって初はじめて、ペットを飼かうには責任せきにんが伴ともなうことを知しった。
It wasn't until I got a dog that I understood the responsibility required to keep a pet.
京都きょうとを訪おとずれて初はじめて、京都きょうとが歴史れきしの古ふるい町まちだと分わかった。
Only after visiting Kyoto did I understand that it is a city with a long history.
日本にほんに来きて初はじめて、日本にほん文化ぶんかに興味きょうみを持もった。
I didn't have any interest in Japanese culture until I came to Japan.

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